Dear Dylan,
Lance (my husband) and I only knew your mother for a few months, but in many ways, she symbolizes the best traits of our wonderful church family (Integrity Church). She was one of the first people to introduce herself to us when we moved to Greenville and started coming to Integrity, and she was the first person to hug me, which was something I desperately needed. Love was engraved on every fiber of her being, and she touched our hearts from simply meeting us, and sharing her sparkling smile. I did a women's book study with your mom, and every time she mentioned you (which was very often!), she beamed with joy. It was obvious that having you as her son was her greatest blessing, and she honored that blessing by being constantly grateful that she got to share her life with you. I hope that if I'm a mother one day, others will see me have a love for my children like your mother had for you. In her heart, you were second only to her love for Christ, and there is no better model of an amazing mother and woman of God. I know that God has great things in store for your life. You are in my prayers, and I am so grateful that I got to meet your mother.
Emily Bollinger
Thursday, April 28
From Sarah Menck
Dear Dylan,
Do you remember that day we spent in Seattle together? We went to a 3-D movie and to the top of the space needle. I remember that your Mom wanted flowers from Pike Place Market, and of course she had to get some shoppin' in before the day was done. :) That was such a fun day, and it's one of the happiest memories I have of your sweet Mom. I miss her a lot, and I bet you miss her even more. Do you know what she used to tell me, when I was sad or upset about something? She would say, "Sarah, God is sovereign, and you've just got to trust His plan for your life!" So that's what I think about now, when I get sad that your Mama had to leave us so soon. She isn't really gone, though, is she? She's looking down from Heaven and I'll bet she's giving you sugar all the time, even though you can't really feel it. Sugar for her Sweet Peach.
I love you so much, Dylan.
Love and hugs, Auntie Sarah
At the Pike Place Market:

At the Seattle Space Needle:

More often, Tonya was behind the camera. These are pictures I cherish that she took:

Do you remember that day we spent in Seattle together? We went to a 3-D movie and to the top of the space needle. I remember that your Mom wanted flowers from Pike Place Market, and of course she had to get some shoppin' in before the day was done. :) That was such a fun day, and it's one of the happiest memories I have of your sweet Mom. I miss her a lot, and I bet you miss her even more. Do you know what she used to tell me, when I was sad or upset about something? She would say, "Sarah, God is sovereign, and you've just got to trust His plan for your life!" So that's what I think about now, when I get sad that your Mama had to leave us so soon. She isn't really gone, though, is she? She's looking down from Heaven and I'll bet she's giving you sugar all the time, even though you can't really feel it. Sugar for her Sweet Peach.
I love you so much, Dylan.
Love and hugs, Auntie Sarah
At the Pike Place Market:
At the Seattle Space Needle:
More often, Tonya was behind the camera. These are pictures I cherish that she took:
From Tess Powell
Dear Dylan,
I have known you and your mom for many years. While I only got to see you a couple of times a year I have been able to keep in touch through your Aunt Beth, Uncle Jason and cousin Adele. Your mom was always fun to be around, had a wonderful smile, laugh, and funny comments. Your mom was an amazing photographer. She recently took pictures of our family and did a beautiful job. I loved spending that time with her that day. Below is a photo I took of the two of you at the beach when you were 4 or 5. I love how tenderly you are looking at each other. I love how much she loved the beach and took you there many times. She loved you so much. She took time to do some special things with you. Special trips to New York, Washington DC and Washington State. My absolute favorite tradition the 2 of you had was creating her special pandora bracelet. I love how you picked out ones that had special meaning for the things that reminded you of your mom. She cherished that bracelet because each bead represented something you picked out especially for her. Every time I think about those memories my heart is warmed. Your mom was a very special lady who loved the Lord and loved you.
Tess Powell


I have known you and your mom for many years. While I only got to see you a couple of times a year I have been able to keep in touch through your Aunt Beth, Uncle Jason and cousin Adele. Your mom was always fun to be around, had a wonderful smile, laugh, and funny comments. Your mom was an amazing photographer. She recently took pictures of our family and did a beautiful job. I loved spending that time with her that day. Below is a photo I took of the two of you at the beach when you were 4 or 5. I love how tenderly you are looking at each other. I love how much she loved the beach and took you there many times. She loved you so much. She took time to do some special things with you. Special trips to New York, Washington DC and Washington State. My absolute favorite tradition the 2 of you had was creating her special pandora bracelet. I love how you picked out ones that had special meaning for the things that reminded you of your mom. She cherished that bracelet because each bead represented something you picked out especially for her. Every time I think about those memories my heart is warmed. Your mom was a very special lady who loved the Lord and loved you.
Tess Powell


From Abby Whaley
Dylan,
You have a very special mother. When you think of your Mother, I hope you will always know that you can never "lose" your Mother. She will forever be a part of who you are, and she is not "lost". God chose her to be your Mother, and I can understand why. She has helped to make you the wonderful, special, loving person that you are. Know that she was so proud to be your Mom! I hope and pray that you will strive to serve others and Love others the way that Jesus Loves you....just like your Mom. She will live on in Heaven for eternity and in the hearts and memories of so many people. Hold on to your memories with her and cherish them. They are a gift that cannot be taken away. May the saddness fade, and the joy that she left, fill your heart and push you forward to all God has in store for you. What a gift you have that your Mother taught you about Jesus and through Him, you can see her again! I rejoice in that truth, as I am anxious to see her again as well. Even through this time of grief, God loves you unconditionally and will never leave you. Hold on to His promises.
Love,
Abby Whaley
You have a very special mother. When you think of your Mother, I hope you will always know that you can never "lose" your Mother. She will forever be a part of who you are, and she is not "lost". God chose her to be your Mother, and I can understand why. She has helped to make you the wonderful, special, loving person that you are. Know that she was so proud to be your Mom! I hope and pray that you will strive to serve others and Love others the way that Jesus Loves you....just like your Mom. She will live on in Heaven for eternity and in the hearts and memories of so many people. Hold on to your memories with her and cherish them. They are a gift that cannot be taken away. May the saddness fade, and the joy that she left, fill your heart and push you forward to all God has in store for you. What a gift you have that your Mother taught you about Jesus and through Him, you can see her again! I rejoice in that truth, as I am anxious to see her again as well. Even through this time of grief, God loves you unconditionally and will never leave you. Hold on to His promises.
Love,
Abby Whaley
From Jes Tugwell
Dylan,
I have met few Women in my life that compare to your Mother. The qualities that your Mother bestowed were precious & beautiful to me. She loved Jesus & served Him so well with her humble, servants heart. She loved You well by honoring Him in how she raised you, supported you, protected you, nurtured you. Your life will forever be changed by the unconditional love that she showed you. My prayer for you sweetheart, is that you will hold tight to her memory and that you will run fast and hard after the Lord all the days of your life. He is the ONLY one that can fill your empty heart. When you have days that you can't breathe because you miss her so much, I promise you I am here. I've been there & I know what it feels like. Your Mother's life has touched my heart so deeply and I am so grateful that I called her, my friend. Dylan never forget how special you are to The Tugwell Family. We love you so very much!
Love,
Ms. Jes
I have met few Women in my life that compare to your Mother. The qualities that your Mother bestowed were precious & beautiful to me. She loved Jesus & served Him so well with her humble, servants heart. She loved You well by honoring Him in how she raised you, supported you, protected you, nurtured you. Your life will forever be changed by the unconditional love that she showed you. My prayer for you sweetheart, is that you will hold tight to her memory and that you will run fast and hard after the Lord all the days of your life. He is the ONLY one that can fill your empty heart. When you have days that you can't breathe because you miss her so much, I promise you I am here. I've been there & I know what it feels like. Your Mother's life has touched my heart so deeply and I am so grateful that I called her, my friend. Dylan never forget how special you are to The Tugwell Family. We love you so very much!
Love,
Ms. Jes
From Jessie Ewell
Dear sweet Dylan,
Your mom was one of the first people I meet at Integrity Church. And I have to say that the one thing I remember most about her was her SMILE! When she smiled, you would automatically feel accepted and at ease. She definitely knew how to be a true friend and she had a heart full of love for others! I thank God that He allowed me to meet her, I have learned how to better serve others through your mother, and I am so grateful to her for that!
I also learned from your sweet mom, how to be a loving mother, when my time comes to have children. The way she lead you, loved you, taught you, and adored you; truly touched my heart! You were the love of her life and she constantly wanted to always be making your life better. The one thing I hope you never forget is that she loved YOU so much!
I know that through you she will never be forgotten. I am extremely sorry for your loss, Dylan. But, I know that God has you in His hands and that He loves you! I love you too, Dylan. And I will always be praying for you!
Jessie Ewell
Your mom was one of the first people I meet at Integrity Church. And I have to say that the one thing I remember most about her was her SMILE! When she smiled, you would automatically feel accepted and at ease. She definitely knew how to be a true friend and she had a heart full of love for others! I thank God that He allowed me to meet her, I have learned how to better serve others through your mother, and I am so grateful to her for that!
I also learned from your sweet mom, how to be a loving mother, when my time comes to have children. The way she lead you, loved you, taught you, and adored you; truly touched my heart! You were the love of her life and she constantly wanted to always be making your life better. The one thing I hope you never forget is that she loved YOU so much!
I know that through you she will never be forgotten. I am extremely sorry for your loss, Dylan. But, I know that God has you in His hands and that He loves you! I love you too, Dylan. And I will always be praying for you!
Jessie Ewell
Wednesday, April 27
From Jack Tye
From Sandy Shallow
Dear Dylan,
Really all I knew of your mom was how very much she loved you! I met her on the Upward Flag Football team field, and she spoke of how happy she was to have you in her life. You were everything to her! Her great smile and twinkling eyes exuded joy when she spoke to me about you. For even someone who spoke to your mom only a few times it was unmistakable how much she loved you and how you were priority number one in her life. She was very content because of the love and joy you gave her each day! She was so proud of you!
I know all of the life lessons she gave you through the years will follow you as you grow. Keep all of your mom's words of wisdom close to your heart, and remember she will always love you and will celebrate with every victory you experience in this life! Because of our gift of eternal life through Jesus you will one day see your mom again. Until then enjoy every moment just like you know your mom would want you to!
Love,
Sandy Shallow
Jack and Harrison's mom
Really all I knew of your mom was how very much she loved you! I met her on the Upward Flag Football team field, and she spoke of how happy she was to have you in her life. You were everything to her! Her great smile and twinkling eyes exuded joy when she spoke to me about you. For even someone who spoke to your mom only a few times it was unmistakable how much she loved you and how you were priority number one in her life. She was very content because of the love and joy you gave her each day! She was so proud of you!
I know all of the life lessons she gave you through the years will follow you as you grow. Keep all of your mom's words of wisdom close to your heart, and remember she will always love you and will celebrate with every victory you experience in this life! Because of our gift of eternal life through Jesus you will one day see your mom again. Until then enjoy every moment just like you know your mom would want you to!
Love,
Sandy Shallow
Jack and Harrison's mom
From Janell Bullock
Dylan,
Your mama was such a special person. She always had the right thing to say and do to make you feel better. She gave me great advice when I needed it most. She loved you so so much and I am so glad that you got to go to NYC and DC this past year, just you and her. She was such a special person and she will be greatly missed. She will now be your angel watching over you from Heaven.
Janell Bullock
Your mama was such a special person. She always had the right thing to say and do to make you feel better. She gave me great advice when I needed it most. She loved you so so much and I am so glad that you got to go to NYC and DC this past year, just you and her. She was such a special person and she will be greatly missed. She will now be your angel watching over you from Heaven.
Janell Bullock
From Tracy Garrow
Dear Dylan,
The first time I met your mama was at Scot and Anna Webster's house for life group, little did I know that this particular night would be the turning point for my life. I listened to people I had never met tell about their day to day struggles and really do "Life together." Your mama stood out because of her country accent :-) her beautiful smile and her big amazing heart. She really could light up a room just by entering it. Dylan in the recent days i've learned even more about your mama through watching the enormous about of comments from people on facebook from the lives she touched, the biggest thing I have learned is that you were her Peach and that she loved you with every fiber of her being. She lived her life as a servant of God and for you as a joyful mama. She talked about you all the time, you always seemed to be on her mind. Even the way she said your name was saturated with love and compassion. Dylan, I know right now things don't seem to make a whole lot of sense, but remember that all of Integrity is right behind you every step of the way, you need only ask. Integrity loved your mama and you! We are all praying and rooting for you! God Bless you in all you do.
Tracy Garrow
The first time I met your mama was at Scot and Anna Webster's house for life group, little did I know that this particular night would be the turning point for my life. I listened to people I had never met tell about their day to day struggles and really do "Life together." Your mama stood out because of her country accent :-) her beautiful smile and her big amazing heart. She really could light up a room just by entering it. Dylan in the recent days i've learned even more about your mama through watching the enormous about of comments from people on facebook from the lives she touched, the biggest thing I have learned is that you were her Peach and that she loved you with every fiber of her being. She lived her life as a servant of God and for you as a joyful mama. She talked about you all the time, you always seemed to be on her mind. Even the way she said your name was saturated with love and compassion. Dylan, I know right now things don't seem to make a whole lot of sense, but remember that all of Integrity is right behind you every step of the way, you need only ask. Integrity loved your mama and you! We are all praying and rooting for you! God Bless you in all you do.
Tracy Garrow
From Ryan and Katy Biagini
Dylan,
I worked with your mom in organizing volunteers for our church. She was unbelievably sweet, always served others before herself, and loved you VERY much! I loved talking to your mom about gardening. She loved spending time with you in the backyard... planting flowers, watching and waiting for butterflies to come to your butterfly bush, and taking pictures of you and all your hard work. I have never met a mother who loved her son more than your mom loved you. She was so proud to be your mom, proud of who you were, and was so grateful that you were her son. You were her best friend.
Life will never be the same without her, but you are not alone. When you feel weak, 'He will fight for you, you need only to be still' (Exodus 14:14). When you feel sad, 'The Lord heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds' (Psalm 147:3). When you feel angry, 'The Lord your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing' (Zephaniah 3:17). When you are scared, 'Cast all your anxieties upon Him, because he cares for you' (1 Peter 5:7).
The Lord will always be with you, Dylan. The whole Integrity family loves you and will continue to pray for you, your loss, and your sweet future. The Lord will do GREAT things through you one day.
Katy (& Ryan) Biagini
I worked with your mom in organizing volunteers for our church. She was unbelievably sweet, always served others before herself, and loved you VERY much! I loved talking to your mom about gardening. She loved spending time with you in the backyard... planting flowers, watching and waiting for butterflies to come to your butterfly bush, and taking pictures of you and all your hard work. I have never met a mother who loved her son more than your mom loved you. She was so proud to be your mom, proud of who you were, and was so grateful that you were her son. You were her best friend.
Life will never be the same without her, but you are not alone. When you feel weak, 'He will fight for you, you need only to be still' (Exodus 14:14). When you feel sad, 'The Lord heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds' (Psalm 147:3). When you feel angry, 'The Lord your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing' (Zephaniah 3:17). When you are scared, 'Cast all your anxieties upon Him, because he cares for you' (1 Peter 5:7).
The Lord will always be with you, Dylan. The whole Integrity family loves you and will continue to pray for you, your loss, and your sweet future. The Lord will do GREAT things through you one day.
Katy (& Ryan) Biagini
From Hunter and Jenna Little
Dear Dylan,
There are so many memories that come to mind when I think of your mom. However, I will never forget the first time Hunter and I came to Integrity church, she was the greeter. This was not only one of your mom's gifts but also a sweet coincidence. Prior to Integrity, I had attended Christ's Church for awhile and so had yall. It had been a few years since I had last seen her, but as we entered the doors of Integrity, she was the first thing we saw. She was smiling, gave me and Hunter the warmest welcome and she even remembered my name. She blew me away with her hospitality and her gift of making me feel loved. This memory was the first of many hugs, sweet conversations and many smiles shared with your mom. Besides the way she loved her Savior, she made it well known how much she loved you. I loved watching her tell stories of you because she would light up. She was an amazing mother and truly cherrished the gift of motherhood. Know that her ability to love well was a true testimony of her faith and God's work in her life. She will be missed but we all look forward to seeing her again!
Sinerely,
Jenna & Hunter Little
There are so many memories that come to mind when I think of your mom. However, I will never forget the first time Hunter and I came to Integrity church, she was the greeter. This was not only one of your mom's gifts but also a sweet coincidence. Prior to Integrity, I had attended Christ's Church for awhile and so had yall. It had been a few years since I had last seen her, but as we entered the doors of Integrity, she was the first thing we saw. She was smiling, gave me and Hunter the warmest welcome and she even remembered my name. She blew me away with her hospitality and her gift of making me feel loved. This memory was the first of many hugs, sweet conversations and many smiles shared with your mom. Besides the way she loved her Savior, she made it well known how much she loved you. I loved watching her tell stories of you because she would light up. She was an amazing mother and truly cherrished the gift of motherhood. Know that her ability to love well was a true testimony of her faith and God's work in her life. She will be missed but we all look forward to seeing her again!
Sinerely,
Jenna & Hunter Little
From Nicole Jacobs
Dylan,
The first time I got to talk to your Mom was at Integrity's Womens' Bible Study. I was so overwhelmed by all the women that came to this Bible study b/c I really didn’t know any of them. I felt out of place & uncomfortable. The group was so big that we ended up getting into smaller groups. Well, your Mom was my “small group leader” and she was an awesome leader. She made me feel so comfortable, as if I had known her forever. I felt comfortable talking and opening up in the group b/c of your Mom. Your Mom really touched my life in a special way. I love her.
I also remember when your Mom was planning a trip to New York for you & her. She wanted to make the trip special for you so she asked for help with planning it. I called your Mom to let her know I wanted to help her. I helped her with looking up great hotels for you two. However, your Mom ended up finding a great hotel by herself. She emailed me what she found & I was just so happy for you all. The pictures from your trip were amazing so I know it was special for you.
It’s hard to explain how much your Mom touched my life in a short time. I don’t know if she knew just how much she touched my life. She was just a beautiful woman with such a warm heart. She talked about you all the time and everyone knew that you meant everything to her. I am just so glad that God allowed me to meet Tonya. I love your Mom so much and I know I will see her in heaven one day!
With Love,
Nicole Jacobs
The first time I got to talk to your Mom was at Integrity's Womens' Bible Study. I was so overwhelmed by all the women that came to this Bible study b/c I really didn’t know any of them. I felt out of place & uncomfortable. The group was so big that we ended up getting into smaller groups. Well, your Mom was my “small group leader” and she was an awesome leader. She made me feel so comfortable, as if I had known her forever. I felt comfortable talking and opening up in the group b/c of your Mom. Your Mom really touched my life in a special way. I love her.
I also remember when your Mom was planning a trip to New York for you & her. She wanted to make the trip special for you so she asked for help with planning it. I called your Mom to let her know I wanted to help her. I helped her with looking up great hotels for you two. However, your Mom ended up finding a great hotel by herself. She emailed me what she found & I was just so happy for you all. The pictures from your trip were amazing so I know it was special for you.
It’s hard to explain how much your Mom touched my life in a short time. I don’t know if she knew just how much she touched my life. She was just a beautiful woman with such a warm heart. She talked about you all the time and everyone knew that you meant everything to her. I am just so glad that God allowed me to meet Tonya. I love your Mom so much and I know I will see her in heaven one day!
With Love,
Nicole Jacobs
From Mark Melton
Dylan,
I remember the first time I met you and your mother. I came over to help clean the Webster's house when they were out of town and your mom was running the show. She really cared about the people at Integrity and I saw this from our first encounter to our last. I had great respect for how organized and efficient she was in dealing with her responsibilities at church. However what impressed me the most and gave me great admiration for your mother is how she loved and cared for you. Your mom was clearly passionate about whatever she was involved with. I will miss her.
Sincerely,
Mark Melton
I remember the first time I met you and your mother. I came over to help clean the Webster's house when they were out of town and your mom was running the show. She really cared about the people at Integrity and I saw this from our first encounter to our last. I had great respect for how organized and efficient she was in dealing with her responsibilities at church. However what impressed me the most and gave me great admiration for your mother is how she loved and cared for you. Your mom was clearly passionate about whatever she was involved with. I will miss her.
Sincerely,
Mark Melton
From Victoria Asbury
Dear Dylan,
The one thing I remember the most about your amazing mother is how much she loved you! I did not know her that well and I haven’t had the pleasure of meeting you but through the status’ she put on facebook there was no way for people not to know you meant everything to her. Almost every status she posted was about you and how proud she was of you! I loved reading her status each day and getting an update of something you did that just blew her mind, she knew how lucky she was to have a son like you, and I know, you know, how lucky you were to have a mother like her! My favorite status about you was “I am so unbelievably grateful to GOD for the gift and privilege of being Dylan's mom. This afternoon he folded and put away a load of laundry as well as a few other house chores to allow me the time to finish reading for my Women's Bible study. Even better, he done it joyfully.” You see your mom couldn’t have asked for a better gift from God than to be your mother, she loved how you were always so sweet and funny and how much you loved her. Your mom will always be watching over you and when you laugh she’ll laugh, when you cry she’ll cry, and when you smile she’ll smile. She will be filled with joy to continue to watch you grow into the fine young man she always knew you’d be! She was and still is so proud of you and the sweet, handsome, and loving boy you have become! I am praying for you Dylan, don’t ever give up hope, as you once said “Jesus conquered the grave!”
With love,
Victoria Asbury
The one thing I remember the most about your amazing mother is how much she loved you! I did not know her that well and I haven’t had the pleasure of meeting you but through the status’ she put on facebook there was no way for people not to know you meant everything to her. Almost every status she posted was about you and how proud she was of you! I loved reading her status each day and getting an update of something you did that just blew her mind, she knew how lucky she was to have a son like you, and I know, you know, how lucky you were to have a mother like her! My favorite status about you was “I am so unbelievably grateful to GOD for the gift and privilege of being Dylan's mom. This afternoon he folded and put away a load of laundry as well as a few other house chores to allow me the time to finish reading for my Women's Bible study. Even better, he done it joyfully.” You see your mom couldn’t have asked for a better gift from God than to be your mother, she loved how you were always so sweet and funny and how much you loved her. Your mom will always be watching over you and when you laugh she’ll laugh, when you cry she’ll cry, and when you smile she’ll smile. She will be filled with joy to continue to watch you grow into the fine young man she always knew you’d be! She was and still is so proud of you and the sweet, handsome, and loving boy you have become! I am praying for you Dylan, don’t ever give up hope, as you once said “Jesus conquered the grave!”
With love,
Victoria Asbury
From Caleb & Lydia
Dylan,
I'm so sad. I love you. I loved your mama too. I remember when we went to the skating rink with your mom, my mom, Lydia and the Webster kids. It was fun riding in your car with the top down. I remember it smelled so good and Tonya said it was a watermelon smell. We had fun skating that day. I also remember your mom keeping us so my parents could do some work. I always loved going to your house! Remember that time y'all spent the night with us? You slept on the top bunk and we talked in the dark. Your mom was a good greeter at church. I hope to still see you at church and in Sunday school. We have prayed a lot for you. I miss you.
Caleb Morrisette (Age 5)


Dylan,
I'm so sorry your mom died. My whole family is going to miss her. That's okay because she is in heaven. Have fun with your grandma. I hope I'm going to have some fun with you. Tonya always loved my shoes, my clothes and my hairbows. I'm going to miss her hugs and having fun with her. She loved me and I loved her.
Lydia Morrisette (Age 4)


I'm so sad. I love you. I loved your mama too. I remember when we went to the skating rink with your mom, my mom, Lydia and the Webster kids. It was fun riding in your car with the top down. I remember it smelled so good and Tonya said it was a watermelon smell. We had fun skating that day. I also remember your mom keeping us so my parents could do some work. I always loved going to your house! Remember that time y'all spent the night with us? You slept on the top bunk and we talked in the dark. Your mom was a good greeter at church. I hope to still see you at church and in Sunday school. We have prayed a lot for you. I miss you.
Caleb Morrisette (Age 5)


Dylan,
I'm so sorry your mom died. My whole family is going to miss her. That's okay because she is in heaven. Have fun with your grandma. I hope I'm going to have some fun with you. Tonya always loved my shoes, my clothes and my hairbows. I'm going to miss her hugs and having fun with her. She loved me and I loved her.
Lydia Morrisette (Age 4)


Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)

